Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)
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You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records

  • SelenaGomezVEVO

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

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    • Sude E.
      Sude E.

      We love you girl

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  • Claire Frigault
    Claire Frigault

    I love you suoz I love you I miss you

  • Lilly Gwozdowski
    Lilly Gwozdowski

    Its verry good and amazing i love this song its the best on the world


    And I think of Hailey or And I think on healing?

  • Gustavo Cruz
    Gustavo Cruz

    Let's talk about Justin's Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

  • Nadine Bürgermeister
    Nadine Bürgermeister

    even after listening to this song the 1000th time, the emotions and everything still hit me hard. you can not just hear the pain in her voice and the lyrics, but she also makes you feel it too, as of justin was your boyfriend. we can all relate to this song somehow thats why everyone gets really emotional hearing it.

  • Jorge Abian Martinez
    Jorge Abian Martinez

    Se merece ganar un grammy😍

  • Younis Saleh
    Younis Saleh

    I’m sooo sorry I know how you feel 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • Ylona Garcia
    Ylona Garcia

    exactly what i needed to hear 😭🥺🥰

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  • Melissa Muller
    Melissa Muller

    This song deserves more views and likes.

  • 말자

    이 언니는 그냥 행복했으면 좋겠다

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  • Irma Induashvili
    Irma Induashvili

    It s cool song

  • Treasure kakee Kamuanguue
    Treasure kakee Kamuanguue

    Love ♥️

  • chrisy gratia
    chrisy gratia

    <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="157">2:37</a> - Selena is literally thanking God to realise that justin is not so worth for her....and for making her so rare💖

  • Anna Fernandez
    Anna Fernandez

    Selena you're my idol and really this song inspires me all time. And Selena all will be okay

  • Farhat Priyana
    Farhat Priyana


  • Boss Shyt
    Boss Shyt

    I stumbled upon this song searching for another one and I have to say I have found my song for 2020!!! This is beautiful and what I'm dealing with currently.

  • khushi gupta
    khushi gupta

    I love selena

  • khushi gupta
    khushi gupta

    They were soo in love

  • khushi gupta
    khushi gupta

    Even though justin doesn't deserve selena...but still istg they look really cute together...justin pls come back to her

  • luna

    <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="177">2:57</a> this part tho! The way she smiled after singing “I needed to lose you to love me” 🥺 This is hitting me right in the feels!!!

  • 20cher09

    My mission in life has become making those involved as miserable as possible!!!

  • 20cher09

    Dylan Does Not get Anything!!! He is No Relation to me!!!

  • 20cher09

    I blame them for Everything!!! I send all My Bad Karma to them!!!

  • 20cher09

    I can't stand Mark, he's been an Asshole to My whole Family. So I treat his Family the same way. You get what you give!!!

  • 20cher09

    Quit Screwing around with My computer Mark, you Hack Job. I don't support Gay Natives or Mexicans. And I don't drink Pepsi!!!

  • Valentas 8bp
    Valentas 8bp

    I Love you Selena Gomez💖❤💖 2 0 2 0

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    번역한사람 진짜 그랜절 올리겠습니다 사랑합니다ㅏㅏㅏㅏ

  • Francis Kamara
    Francis Kamara

    U didnt lose him he losed u cause he will meber fond so,eome like u bcs ur rare

  • psycho banana
    psycho banana

    Selena thanks for this song.

  • HR VY
    HR VY


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  • Catherine Ameche
    Catherine Ameche

    Here's the thing. I can't relate with a lover relationship, But I can with my father. He lied to me about going to some paradise while he was buying houses, but it turned out to be some kind of horrible trap to move me out to some dump where I'd never see my friends or family again, So I file something in court to "Lose him." Then he actually cared about what I wanted and started to "Love me" So I could relate.

  • Dini

    Selena is a beautiful and beloved woman, she is amazing with a revered personality.❤️ I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks she's the queen👑


    1,000,000,000X better than yummyshit


    I've been listening to this song a dozen times, I never noticed the video before it's really good. her reactions


    this song hits hard when you have been through a toxic relationship, I'm literally crying right now and so proud of her

  • Sharron Zefanya
    Sharron Zefanya


  • Caroline Diana
    Caroline Diana

    She's so pretty and is she is truthly rare. Her voice and her flaws is amazingg, forever love. But this song is really touch my heart, so in love 🥺💕 wanna cry..

  • Rotchel Mejorada
    Rotchel Mejorada

    Please post a pic of you and as many of the other cast members of Barney :( Like a reunion. You guys all grown up is mind blowing!

  • Gerimae Balanza
    Gerimae Balanza

    Why am I seeing random beliebers trying to spread hate in the comments section please *LEAVE*

  • Margarita Aguilar
    Margarita Aguilar

    Dios te bendiga mucho reina😘

  • jayanti das
    jayanti das

    When Selena Gomez smile at the end I think that is the most adorable scene of the song and I think that she want to show that problems are come in everyone's life but if u smile at that moment you can make other people happy

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    Daniiel 98

    camera ip 11?vidioclips

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  • Nancy Quintero
    Nancy Quintero

    You Are Wonderful #SelenaGomez Regards From Panama.

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  • Tee Fp
    Tee Fp

    Beautiful song

  • Jorge Almeida
    Jorge Almeida

    So amazing

  • cristy :3
    cristy :3

    Se que tal vez no entiendas español, Pero quiero agradecerte por haber escrito y haber cantado esta canción , Significa mucho para mi , Ya que me siento identificada con la canción , Pase por momentos difíciles y ahora que la escucho me siento más fuerte y comprendí que primero debo amarme a mi , Para volver a amar. Me siento nueva ❤ Gracias Selena gomez ❤✨🌈

  • Nelly Maria
    Nelly Maria


  • Leslie Lechuga
    Leslie Lechuga

    Escucho esta cancion con mis audifonos y a todo volumen, se entristece mi alma pero miro al cielo, sonrio, y siento una paz interior increíble. Gracias.

  • Merary Castillo
    Merary Castillo

    I love this song I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years until I said no more and I closed that chapter and started focusing on my self and loving my self and out of no where I met this amazing human being that now is my husband. we have been together 3 years and we are still going strong. Never give up on yourself and never give up on love

  • Ceez Jayzz
    Ceez Jayzz

    ❤️💯🔥 Breeana Lynn Campbell ❤️ Jerome Sonny Cook💖

  • Carlton Doorman
    Carlton Doorman

    I love nobody Just myself, my body People love me Because I’m beautiful, have money They like my smile, my teeth Whiter than an angel, I don’t tease Never I will know what is real Love For that we must not to be egoistic, but it my choice This world doesn’t give me a chance To be real, to see the live like a dance We are animal, nothing more If we don’t show how we are good we are bore I can’t lose my soul in your eyes Because I’m afraid to what it implies I prefer focus on money Its normal we are programmed by our country To Love it and nothing else Look who is sit on the big chair Mirror of us Take a bus Run away, but you will find same No love, even here, don’t came Music in my head shake what I am Better to think to eat, to spam Looking everywhere and all is empty What I feel so unhappy To see this World without Love Because No answer, no though It’s bad to follow Looking me in mirror Don’t make me who we are I’m conscious I can’t change nothing For that we need to have no sin Who I am? A singer, actress, who care Just a human with her scare Even if I run in Lamborghini or a Jet The Love is away from me, I’m upset Never I will find it Even if I search for the eternity, even if I make 1000 hits Just what I can do is to buy all With my money, even if it’s a wall I can’t destroy it, it’s my life I know I can’t survive When I will older, I will look my life And like majority of humans no Love, no fire Something big, but empty Sadly We can believe in God Thinking its Love

  • Mimato Nimiana
    Mimato Nimiana

    It's hard to love someone a long time and wish to be yours but at the end it will never be yours.... She will live all her life hidden this pain and smile in front of everyone as if nothing happened and saying it's ok Be strong selena ♡♡

  • Acikk .566
    Acikk .566

    I know everybody dont know about this, This music videos was made by Iphone 11. Me:Yoo WTF thats so crazy tho.

  • Anita Ramlal-Fraser
    Anita Ramlal-Fraser

    Ilove this song😢

  • Faustin Kagesera
    Faustin Kagesera

    I love the song selena gomez it a good song

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  • Andrew Andy
    Andrew Andy

    Hi Selena! Congrats on you're song, and I really loved you're song. also you are amazing grace, and God Blessed of our hearts. Love You Selena Gomez.

  • Angela Trigo
    Angela Trigo

    Dont worry selena we are still here for you Please dont be sad

  • Roxann Rutherford
    Roxann Rutherford

    you have done your best lena, what can you do but be patient, you are a role model to most ppl out there. You should understand that you make us feel like we have other things to live for. you inspire us to get up after we have fallen. I AM PROUD OF YOU.

  • Ghun Ghun Media
    Ghun Ghun Media

    Girl vs boy

  • LatinoMex01

    She is Half Mexican and Half Italian the prefect mix also Humble in every way know that! Gringos :) i know you dont like it when people say it but Oh welllll idiotas know that White woman prefer us Hispanics more then any other ethnicity,race this is an example and because of everything we do Work,Love and are Blessed Viva los Latinos por todo el Mundo LatinoAmerica es mas Grande que todo el Mundo pero Dios es el Rey de Reyes el quien es nos hizo aqui en esta tierra btw I Hope Selena ur seeing this message someway somehow I still hope you can still make Amends,Peace and be friends or Best friends still with Demi Lovato because one of the Greatest things we have as human beings is Forgiveness to be able to do that never lose that Okay Amen.

  • Ilsa Mughal
    Ilsa Mughal

    Record of the year - Lose you to love me_ Selena Gomez

  • Buse Asel
    Buse Asel

    2020 Turkey 🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷

  • Jaida Franzen
    Jaida Franzen

    Sorry selena, I also sang of key in ur chorus

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    JLW Poetry Knight

  • Leonie - Lena
    Leonie - Lena

    Love the song

  • Krispy Dee
    Krispy Dee

    <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="92">1:32</a> the harmoniessss 😍😍😍